Our second TFO Friday explored how more families could access joined-up professional support—and remain firmly in charge.
By Steve Conley | Academy of Life Planning | 23 October 2026
A family can have a financial planner, an accountant and a solicitor—and still find that nobody is joining everything together.
Each professional understands part of the picture. The family lives with the whole of it.
That was the starting point for our second TFO Friday this afternoon. A subgroup of Academy Inner Circle members meets every Friday to explore a question with significant implications for families and the professionals who support them:
Could the joined-up family office service traditionally associated with families worth £30 million or more become accessible to families worth around £3 million, without taking control away from them?
We believe the answer is yes. Our task now is to turn that belief into a practical, tested service.
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The family is the pilot
Traditionally, a wealthy family appoints professionals to look after the things they lack the time or expertise to manage themselves.
That can provide valuable support. But it is expensive, and handing over the work can gradually become handing over the decisions.
Our Total Family Office approach starts with the family in control.
The lead client is the pilot. The planner is the control tower: recognising where complexity is building, helping identify what needs attention, bringing in the right professional at the right moment, and maintaining a clear record of what was decided and why.
The family chooses its destination. Professional support helps it navigate.
Good tools and AI make this approach increasingly practical. Families can undertake more of the preparation, organisation and ongoing work themselves, drawing on human expertise when they need it.
That changing division of work is central to our ambition to make joined-up support viable at around a tenth of the traditional wealth scale.
Greater client capability changes the economics of professional support.
A family’s “financial bible”
Mike Field shared the thinking behind his Family Business Plan: a family’s “financial bible”, kept up to date over decades.
The description resonated because so much family knowledge sits in disconnected places: professional files, correspondence, personal records—and the memory of the person who knows how everything fits together.
What happens when an adviser changes?
What happens when the person who knew everything is no longer there?
A family-owned record can preserve more than a list of assets. It can capture the reasoning behind decisions, the connections between different arrangements and the questions that still need attention.
Each professional contributes to a record that belongs to the family. Over time, the family builds continuity across changes in advisers and generations.
From a good principle to a recognised role
One planner made an important observation: putting clients at the centre of their world has always been good planning.
Quite right.
The opportunity is to give that principle a recognised role, a practical structure and proper training—so families can understand what the service provides, and practitioners can develop the capability to deliver it.
We walked through the Total Family Office Practitioner Programme taking shape:
Eleven modules across three stages: Foundations, Recognition and Practice.
The programme ends with each planner onboarding one real family, bringing the learning into practice.
Four principles run through the approach:
- Recognition before structuring. Understand the situation and recognise what needs attention before moving towards solutions.
- Specialists do the specialist work. The planner recognises when specialist expertise is needed and helps bring it into the conversation.
- No referral fees. The family pays for the service it receives.
- The family owns its record and remains in charge of its plan. Professional support strengthens its ability to make informed decisions.
The planner’s value lies in seeing the connections, recognising complexity and helping the family access appropriate expertise.
Testing the model against real family life
The discussion that followed was the best part of the afternoon.
How many families can one planner realistically support? What does good coordination require over time? How does the approach work when family members, assets or professional relationships span more than one country?
These questions will shape the service and the training behind it.
They also explain why we are moving into a pilot with our working group of Total Wealth Planners. Working with real families will help us test the approach, understand the practical demands and refine the programme.
We are working towards opening it more widely in the new year.
Join the conversation
TFO Friday takes place every Friday at 2.00pm UK time, bringing together a subgroup of Academy Inner Circle members to help develop the approach.
If you are an accredited Total Wealth Planner and would like to be part of shaping this work, please get in touch.
Our ambition is to make joined-up family support accessible to more people, with clear records, appropriate expertise and stronger family capability.
Join us, visit our website for details.
