A Get SAFE guide for people under financial threat If you are facing enforcement, eviction, debt, or court action, your nervous system is not in “research mode”. It is in survival mode. Your brain is scanning for certainty, control, and a way to make the threat stop. That is not weakness. That is biology. And … Continue reading When You’re Desperate for Answers, the Rabbit Hole Can Look Like Rescue
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The Significant S.T.O.R.I.E.S. System™
Hi Steve, I asked your GPT tool this: Can you give me some text that introduces the 8 steps to your Plan B, also known as the Significant S.T.O.R.I.E.S. system, explain the outcome for the user, and the power of it in someone’s life? But the answer it gave me wasn’t quite right. It leaned … Continue reading The Significant S.T.O.R.I.E.S. System™
The Bridge: Who you are on the other side
Where you are now (Before the Bridge) People arrive at the bridge carrying some combination of: exhaustion from systems that take more than they give a sense of having been used, overlooked, or misled skills and experience that no longer fit the roles available a quiet knowing that this chapter is over They often describe … Continue reading The Bridge: Who you are on the other side
Inside the Slaughterhouse: What Structural Untrustworthiness Feels Like
Structural untrustworthiness is not built from villains.It’s built from fear, ambition, and obedience — woven into a system that rewards the wrong instincts and punishes the right ones. Within such a structure, people don’t set out to destroy lives.They drift into doing so, one rationalisation at a time. 🩸 The Anatomy of Structural Untrustworthiness 1. … Continue reading Inside the Slaughterhouse: What Structural Untrustworthiness Feels Like
After the Applause
By the Academy of Life Planning There’s a special kind of moment when a career completes its circle.The firm is thriving, the numbers have aligned, and the offer on the table feels almost poetic — a multiple of recurring revenue that quantifies years of care and craft. You sign the agreement. Messages flood in — … Continue reading After the Applause
From Victim Silence to Structural Trust: A Message to Financial Planners
I’m often told my framing of financial planners as either exploiting or empowering is too binary — and I understand why that can offend. It’s not meant to. If you’ve ever felt accused by my words, please know this: my frustration isn’t directed at you. It’s born from the voices I hear daily — people … Continue reading From Victim Silence to Structural Trust: A Message to Financial Planners
💙 Why I Started Get SAFE
Rebuilding Lives. Restoring Justice. When I left the banks in 2012 and founded the Academy of Life Planning, I thought I was simply stepping away from an industry that had lost its soul. What I didn’t realise then was that I was walking straight into the lives of those it had left behind. Everywhere I … Continue reading 💙 Why I Started Get SAFE
🌿 From Decision Trees to Living Choices
How Life Planners Transform Analysis into Awareness When faced with life’s most important decisions, people don’t struggle because they lack information — they struggle because they are torn between head and heart. In Mhairi’s Dilemma (Mullin et al., 2008), a ten-year-old girl faced an impossible choice: whether to attend the funeral of her beloved priest. … Continue reading 🌿 From Decision Trees to Living Choices
🎓 When the System Shuts You Out, Build Your Own Path
Why graduates need a GAME Plan for life beyond rejection It’s the question every graduate dreads: “What’s next?”For too many today, the answer is bleak. Rejections from AI-driven recruitment systems, unpaid internships, demoralising trips to the Jobcentre, and—inevitably—signing on for Universal Credit. Recent reports highlight a shocking reality: over 630,000 graduates are now claiming Universal … Continue reading 🎓 When the System Shuts You Out, Build Your Own Path
🕵️♂️ Redemption or Reputation Laundering?
The Curious Case of Alexander Wood, ‘Reformed Fraudster’ "I stole £1.2m in 40 minutes, then blew it all in Harrods."That’s the chilling headline from a recent article in The Sunday Times, profiling Alexander Wood—a man who claims to have swindled over £50 million through authorised push payment (APP) scams before reinventing himself as an anti-fraud … Continue reading 🕵️♂️ Redemption or Reputation Laundering?
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