There is no lower act than preying on the vulnerable. Elder abuse is the most cowardly crime — a calculated betrayal that targets those who are often defenceless, isolated, and trusting.
From institutions to individuals, and even trusted professionals, the abuse of elders is more common — and more insidious — than many care to admit. It’s not just a tragic anomaly; it’s a systemic issue, often cloaked in legal procedures, polished professionalism, and smiling deceit.
A Bullying, Cowardly Tactic
Behind the veneer of guardianship, legal services, or even religious compassion, we have seen examples of widows and elderly individuals stripped of their assets, homes, and autonomy — not by criminals in the shadows, but by those in positions of trust. The church, state, and corporations are not immune. In some cases, they are the architects.
Too often, the perpetrators are those the victims once trusted the most: lawyers, real estate agents, government officials. We know this not just from headlines, but from firsthand experience in New Zealand — where trust professionals acted with shocking impunity, aided by institutional apathy. Complaints were raised. The NZ Police and public officials were alerted. Yet silence followed. And then came the retaliation — DARVO tactics (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) and gaslighting, compounding the trauma.
“I Care a Lot” — Fiction Reflecting a Grim Reality
The film I Care a Lot is more than entertainment — it’s a mirror held up to a disturbing reality. Rosamund Pike’s portrayal of Marla Grayson shows just how easily a well-dressed predator can manipulate systems meant to protect. With bribed doctors and emergency court orders, she imprisons elders in care homes and liquidates their estates under the guise of care. It’s chilling because it’s plausible. It’s enraging because it’s real.
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When the System Fails, Families Suffer
Imagine being forcibly separated from your parent under false pretences. Imagine watching their life’s work siphoned away while you’re legally barred from intervening. Imagine raising the alarm and becoming the target of smear campaigns and institutional gaslighting.
That’s not dystopian fiction. That’s happening. In New Zealand. Today.
Where is the Accountability?
When ministers ignore complaints, and public servants participate in abuse or cover-ups, trust in governance erodes. But worse still is the message it sends: that elder exploitation is tolerable if it’s wrapped in bureaucracy and legalese.
We must reject this. Abuse is abuse — whether it’s behind closed doors or in boardrooms.
We Must Speak Out
This is a call to action. To protect our parents, grandparents, and one day — ourselves. To demand reform, transparency, and the courage to prosecute white-collar abuse with the same vigour we pursue street crime.
Elder abuse is not just a personal tragedy; it’s a societal disgrace. And until we confront it — with truth, with visibility, and with unrelenting pressure — it will continue in silence.
Let us be the voice for those silenced. Let us expose the cowardice. And let us stand, together, for justice.
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